Half My Food Budget Goes to Dining Out

My husband Ben and I eat out at least three times a week.

The Cost of a New Life: Part One

Rebuilding my life — and building furniture — after a divorce.

How Five Bánh Mì Sandwiches Helped Me Pass the Bar

The takeout order marked the end of my marriage and the start of my new career.

Planning for Retirement When There’s an Age Gap in Your Relationship

My husband is 17 years older than I am. When should we plan to retire?

A Love Story in Two Cross-Country Moves

I was planning on moving to Seattle. Then I met The Guy.

A Two-Bedroom Apartment of One’s Own

I just moved to the first apartment where I am the master tenant.

The Cost of Moving On: How I Justified My $100 Gym Membership

It was the nicest adult daycare I could possibly check myself into.

The Cost of a New Last Name

When my husband and I got married, we decided to create a new last name together.

Why I’m in Philadelphia Instead of Seattle

I grew up in Seattle and always planned to spend my adulthood there.

When You Don’t Know What’s Coming, Plan Anyway

As the year rounds out, I’m realizing the lengths I go to just so I can avoid being caught out unawares.