The Cost Of Things: Engagement Photos

Some smart-ass in San Francisco had an idea: what if he posed in traditional engagement photo-y ways and places with a burrito in lieu of a bride? Hilarity ensued.

We’ve discussed deep-sixing the engagement period, with its attendant formalities; would you be pleased to ditch the taking of engagement photos as one of too-many costly obligations, or would you kind of miss it? If you paid for pictures, did you think it was worth it? After all, you can use the photos for Save The Dates, wedding websites, and to remember forever how you looked when you were (relatively) young, carefree, and full of hope. I can see how, to some people, that might be priceless.

Others, which is to say, probably most of you, are squinting doubtfully at your computers and thinking, “Romance is fine and good but how much money are we talking about?”

Let’s find out! First stop: the Knot.

Need an ultrapractical reason to schedule an engagement photo shoot? It’s a great opportunity to test-drive your wedding photographer. …

Many photographers include an engagement photo session as part of the overall package, which presents a good opportunity to see your photographer in action. It also gives him the chance to experiment with flattering angles, poses, and lighting levels before the wedding day. If you haven’t booked your nuptial shutterbug yet, look at engagement photos as a chance to audition your top choice. …

If an engagement session isn’t included in your wedding photo package, hire an a la carte photographer instead. For a basic portrait sitting at a photography studio and a few prints, you can expect to pay a few hundred dollars. Hiring a professional for an afternoon’s worth of photo ops will cost several times that much — the final cost will depend on where you live, and the popularity of the photographer.

Seems like the range is $300 — $1000, then. Sound like a lot? Try GroupOn. You can find deals like “$150 for a 60-minute engagement or couple photo shoot package (a $730 value).” Try finding a photography student at a nearby college or grad school whose portfolio you like.

Or, of course, you could tap a friend, as Lovelyish suggests:

if you have a friend who is great with a camera, ask if they’d be willing to take your photos! Having a friend take your photos is much more intimate and fun than someone who doesn’t know you as a couple.

Do not spend too much on them! If a photographer is asking for over $150–200 for your session, they’re asking for too much. And if you have a friend take them, do not try to get out of paying them, even if they aren’t a professional. They’re doing you a favor, and a lovely one at that! If they won’t take a check, offer to buy them lunch or dinner (or return the favor!).

Lastly, let’s all enjoy some cautionary tales, courtesy of BadEngagementPhotos.tumblr.com.

This story is part of our Wedding Season series.

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